hold on, b faithful

What's the perfect recipe to keep 'berserah' n 'berusaha' in balance? so u don't overdo one of and forget the other? so u could sense that the result -even not as high as u expected- is worth your effort? so u could be patience when God gives u bit by bit? so u could keep away from 'haram' money even you're so in need, even it's so easy to get? so u always could smile no matter how hard God slams your days?

analysis on missing girl case recently

something that doesn't need an effort to solve isn't defined as problem, the effort itself not always parallel to wealth, health, intelligence, age, and gender
it shows when people who almost had everything, still have something to call problem
why?
where's the root of all problems?
the root of all are temptation, passion and desire